Try The 69 Position A Little Differently. You’ll Like It More

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GEORGE V MAGAZINE
It resembles a man and a woman in the number six and nine positions. It usually looks like the man lies on his back, the woman sits astride him, and both begin to perform oral pleasure. Or both lie on their sides and have their mouths on the other’s penis. It is an extremely sensual position in which most people reach orgasm almost immediately. A location that everyone knows, yet few people know about.
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A position that is probably one of the most famous after missionary, but it doesn’t have an ideal reputation. Many couples no longer prefer it because they find it uncomfortable, quite demanding and not very satisfying. But all of that can be a thing of the past in your bedroom from now on. Enjoy the 69 position differently than before.

However, it is not the ideal position for everyone. According to the American online magazine Elite Daily, it is loved by freethinkers and all free spirits. If you have certain problems with it, it is time to eliminate them.

More romance is missing.

It’s a highly intimate position, but it’s also highly sexual, so many couples miss the more romantic aspect. The 69 position doesn’t offer eye contact, so some may find it unsatisfying. So work on your foreplay and try to build up the excitement with kissing and stimulating your erogenous zones. Once you’re in the mood, start with oral sex. Many people also find it helpful to have a mirror next to their bed so they can watch their partner enjoy it and watch themselves in action. Genuine pleasure is the greatest stimulant.

You lose concentration.

You will start to get bored and your partner may even lose his erection. You are focusing on two things at once. This distracts your mind, so you cannot focus on your own pleasures, because you are focused on stimulating your partner in the right rhythm. The solution is to take turns. Agree that when your lover stops caressing, you will start. Take turns honestly. You will see that you will find pleasure in 69 and, in addition, you will both enjoy delaying orgasm.

Overcome height differences

The problem arises when the partners who love the 69 position are of significantly different heights. This complicates the whole situation. As soon as the woman is significantly shorter than the partner, the lover stimulates her, but after a few seconds his neck hurts. On the other hand, if the woman is taller, it is difficult for the partner to adjust her vagina at all and be relatively comfortable. However, there are ways out of this. Both of you lie on your sides and support your bodies with pillows or blankets so that no one suffers.

Add another form of stimulation

The 69 position doesn’t have to be all about oral pleasure. You should know that both sexes have a lot of nerve endings around the anus. So while you’re having oral sex, dab a little lube on your finger and run it around your perineum, the muscular area between your anus and your genitals. See how much pleasure you can bring to each other.

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