Pamela Anderson Reflects on Her ‘Solitary’ Life as an Artist in Guest Essay: I’m ‘Full of Secrets’

“If it came easy, everyone could do it,” writes the SAG Award-nominated ‘Last Showgirl’ star in a guest essay for George V Magazine

Acting is a survival mechanism. 

We all do it. To make a career of it is a blessing. From a young child who learned to smile and carry on in the face of despair… to a student struggling, searching, experimenting and torturing ourselves in acting class — or both — we learn as we go. And there is a different route to get here for all of us. This is an industry of misfits.

Just a reminder: a very small percentage of the Screen Actors Guild makes a living as an actor… not everyone in the guild is a movie star. 

More likely it’s young people sharing an apartment and a plate of french fries, borrowing a friend’s car to get to auditions, saving up for union dues, working consistently enough to get health care. Finding someone to believe in us, a sponsor, a mentor, an agent. While many auditions are impossible without already being in the union, it’s not an easy task… there are crossroads to bear… If it came easy, everyone could do it.

We don’t stop dreaming. Even if we are raising families, waiting tables, or watching the Criterion Channel. (My generation read plays from the old Samuel French bookstore.) There is no formula.

Being an artist is solitary, lonely and full of secrets.

I’ve been there. I’ve been objectified at times, and written off. I’ve made mistakes, reinvented myself time and again. And, I’ve also given up — but found that when I thought it was the end, it was truly the beginning.

The character of Shelly in The Last Showgirl carries all these feelings, hopes and desires. She has found her calling, her meaning and her way to cope — and it’s being ripped out from under her. No one else understands that better than a performer, who gets the “life and death” element of being seen, heard and essentially loved.

Though youth, energy and beauty may be perishable — and rejection is a constant — be strong, stay soft and never give up. Harvest time comes after all you have endured, planted and put into yourself. If you have something to give, there is a place for it. There is no need to explain one’s self… because it’s unexplainable. 

You are here, I see you. I am you. 

We have to fight for it… Artists are the freedom fighters of the world.

Pamela Anderson reveals terrifying flight incident with fan who mistook her with one of the Dixie Chicks

Shared the shocking details of how she was almost attacked

Pamela Anderson recently opened up about a frightening experience she had on a flight when a man mistook her for a member of the Chicks – formally the Dixie Chicks.

The 57-year-old actress shared the shocking details of how she was almost attacked by the fan who thought she was one of the country music band members.

Anderson recalled the unsettling exchange, mimicking the man’s gruff voice as he confronted her.

“This one time, I was on a flight and this guy came up to me and said, ‘Do you know what this country’s done for you?'” Anderson shared on the Happy Sad Confused podcast. “And I was like, ‘Oh my God. What have I done?'”

The situation escalated quickly. Anderson described how the man began to act aggressively, glaring at her from behind in his seat as the flight progressed. Her discomfort turned into fear as the man’s behavior became more erratic.

“He was snarling and glaring at me,” Anderson continued. “And this stewardess had to handcuff him to the chair because he was trying to attack me.”

In a surprising twist, Anderson revealed that the man thought she was a member of the controversial country band, The Chicks.

“Yeah! And, end up, he thought I was a Dixie Chick,” Anderson added.

She reflected on the infamous 2003 backlash the band faced, prompting a laugh from the audience.

Anderson described the incident as a “minor” experience in the grand scheme of things, though it left her rattled.

“I was scared to fly after that, a little bit,” she admitted.

Pamela Anderson shows off her natural beauty at aged 57 after ditching makeup. pic.twitter.com/yti5kcs4QY

— Oli London (@OliLondonTV) October 12, 2024

The Chicks’ controversial backlash

While Anderson did not specify when the incident took place, it is likely that it occurred sometime after 2003. That year, The Chicks, particularly lead singer Natalie Maines, ignited a firestorm of controversy after speaking out against then-President George W. Bush and the Iraq war.

Maines‘s comments at a London concert, where she noted that “we do not want this war, this violence, and we’re ashamed that the President of the United States is from Texas,” caused an uproar, particularly among conservative Americans.

The Chicks were blacklisted from country radio, had their albums destroyed, and were even targeted with death threats.