Quick Sex, Fantasies, And Other Things You Shouldn’t Joke About In Bed

A man won’t forgive you for this

Duration of Sex

One of the main fears of a man is how long he can last in bed. Kate: “For a man, long sexual intercourse is a confirmation of his coolness; women often underestimate this moment. Any joke about this will hit a man’s self-esteem, he may even become aggressive.” If you are in a long-term relationship and are faced with the problem of too short sexual intercourse, without any irony, gently push the man to go to a specialist, it is advisable to even accompany him for support.

Each person has his own set of sexual triggers, on which our sexual fantasies are based. Even the funniest fantasy should not force you to openly mock a man. Kate: “In my practice, I have met men who stopped sharing their desires and fantasies with their partners after a woman once made them laugh. It is impossible to achieve a harmonious sex life if you are not ready to discuss absolutely all aspects seriously with your partner.” Of course, if a man’s fantasies seem humiliating to you and they can harm you, simply give reasons for your refusal, without ridiculing him.

No jokes about his main body part

It’s no secret that a man’s penis is the most important thing a man has (in his opinion). He will never forgive you for jokes about your appearance, shape and other features, even if it seems to you that the joke is harmless. Sexologist: “As my clients say, a penis is not a joke in any form. It’s especially unpleasant to hear unflattering statements from a woman whom a man wanted to impress.” Save only the most enthusiastic descriptions for the male “axis” powers.